What lovers want from online dating

: 2013-12-08  : HimHerDating.com
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When you are young, dating can be a tricky thing. The rules do not generally apply to everyone. What's good for one person can go so wrong for another. By experience I realized that people go from one date to the other like trial and error. They go looking for something, but they don't really know what it is. This can cause you a lot of embarrassing first dates and constant heart ache if you are not careful. Before you play the dating game, you should ask yourself, what do you really want?

Dating for Fun

There was a point in my life when I dated just for the fun of it. All of my friends were going out with someone and I didn't want to be left out. It was fun to get a cute guy's attention and actually get him to ask me out. It was fun going out on group dates with my friends and then making fun of our dates right after. At that point in my life, I wasn't really looking for anything serious. I just wanted to have some fun.

Sex and Intimacy while Dating

There also comes a time when hormones start playing tricks with our heads and as young people, we get to be more curious of our sexuality. This is the time when dating meant exploring our bodies and wanting to learn more about sex and intimacy. Some people go on a date, not wanting anything serious but simply with hopes of getting laid.

Romance and Love

There comes a time too when our heads are filled with dreams of romance and love. It can be lonely at times and we begin to seek out someone who will treat us in a special way. These people want to be needed and loved by someone. They go on a date with someone who likes them even if they don't like the person. They do this for companionship from someone who actually cares for them.

My Soul mate

Lastly, in the end I guess people get to the point when they get tired of dating different people. We all just want to find that one person who will complete us. We want to love and be loved back. And at this point we go out with people with hopes to find our soul mate.

Now, whoever you choose to date, and for whatever reason you are doing it, the most important thing is that you know what you really want. No one can tell you what to do and how to do it. You are the only one who can get you what you truly need.

This blog is open for comments. Please share your opinions with other readers.

: tonie,  
  • that's good to look for on this site . things we all should know about dateing
: Frances ,  
  • It seems to me men want sex right away or they are playing games. I am 68 yrs old. I don't understand this. I am a widow of two years. Is this life now?
: khald,   smare
  • hi im searching for friends at this time .and we will see where it goes from there , have fun and a great time I like play BINGO some time I like to have fun and enjoy good food Would like to be friends first. I enjoy dinning out, movies, walks, and quiet evenings. Like to cook.
: Francisca,   Owen
  • looking for a loving and caring man to be with, please contact me or email me i will be happy to reply your emails...

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