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How Girls can feel Sexy
Many say that being sexy is a gift. It's something that you are born with. It's either you have it or you don't have it. Of course, it still depends on how you define the word "sexy." If your definition of sexy is to look like the models on Fashion TV then you should be talking to a plastic surgeon. But did you know that even though you don't look like a model or a movie star, you can feel sexy? Psychologists say that being "Sexy" is a state of mind. It comes out from your natural sexuality and from the confidence you have about yourself. Here are some tips on how you can start feeling sexy.
Accept Your Sexuality
Since you were a kid, you were taught to act appropriately, according to the dictates of society. For the longest time you were told not to wear skimpy clothes or show off too much skin. Somehow, with parent's efforts to protect their little princess, they make sex sound like a bad thing. But as a girl grows up to become a lady, there are some things that she has to unlearn to be able to feel sexy. First of all, sexuality is not a bad thing. It is a part of your being a normal and healthy woman. I know you were told not to touch yourself when you were younger. But somehow, you have to be comfortable touching yourself to know what makes you feel good. This will help you feel more relaxed and confident when it's time to get intimate with someone else. Free yourself of all inhibitions and allow your body to tell you what is pleasurable and what is not.
You have to make sure that you are confident enough for someone to be near enough to smell you. Perfume is not good enough for feeling sexy. Be clean and make sure every part of your body smells nice. Sexiness appeals to all the senses. And one important sense that entices the appetite, both for eating and for sex is the sense of smell. So make sure you are clean all the time and have on just enough perfume or cologne to leave a vague after scent as you walk by.
Like What You Wear
One more thing you will have to work on is on how to dress to impress. You must have that "I feel good" feeling whenever you are wearing your choice of clothing. Out of all your clothes, there is that one outfit you wear that turns heads towards your direction. That is the result we are looking for. Go shop for clothes that have that effect on people. If you dress that way all the time, you will feel good about yourself and gain the confidence needed to achieve your goal. Just don't overdo the cleavage and the micro minis that can make you look trashy and you'll be fine. A little powder and some light make up can make a great difference as well.
Chin up girl!
Now that you look and smell good, you should be proud of your progress. Start working on your sexy walk. It doesn't have to be like a runway walk. Simply pull up and fix your posture. Keep your chin parallel to the floor. Keep your shoulders down and walk in a straight line. Let your arms freely swing as physics would allow them. Your hips and shoulders will follow as well. Be confident and always imagine that people are watching you so you shouldn't lose your poise.
More Self Improvement
It is also healthy to start being conscious of the things you need to improve on. Start taking care of your body by eating right and exercising. Go to the gym and work out. Go to a beauty salon and have some treatments done. All these will make you feel good inside and out.
Now that you know the walk, you have to learn the talk. There is a certain body language that you have to learn to be able to master the art of flirting. Neither parent nor school would teach you this, so you have to start learning from experience. Well, basically the first rule is to know what you like and don't be shy to look. The eyes communicate well even without speaking. A smile or a simple touch can also say so much more. And if given the chance to talk to someone you like, be open in letting him know what you do like about him. It may take several embarrassing moments to get it right. But as they say, practice makes perfect.
Put on the Sexy Lingerie
Whether you plan on showing them or not, having sexy lingerie makes you feel more daring and confident. It's like keeping a deep dark secret. And sometimes when others get a peak of what's inside, it makes them see you in a different way. It's like a sneak peak of your exciting sex life, whether you have it or not.
Get Yourself Out There
If you are young and single, there is no reason for you to be hiding in your house on a Friday night. Go out and have fun. Go to a club and go dancing. Feeling sexy is a matter of liberating yourself from the judgement of others and knowing what you want and getting it.